Jenny, the FIRST thing to do is to make your feelings CLEARLY known to your fiance. He, in turn, must do the same thing to his best man. In my case, my brother was my best man. I made it VERY clear to him where to draw the line and that I would embarass him if he tried to go beyond it. He didn't and we still had a blast.

Bottom line is that your fiance and the best man have to set the tone.

rabbit