Sweety,

I didn't know things have gotten so disconnected. Her letter to you doesn't sound evasive or off-putting, so I have to assume she is consumed with the happenings of her mom, and I have to admit that would take priority for me as well. This situation you are in...though not totally unique, but really difficult...is the toughest part on you and Curvy's relationship. If all you can do right now is just keep emailing her...then do just that and she'll have a collection to rely on when she has time to read them and the need to feel close to you. From what I know of her, she is a pretty independent woman and maybe she just really thinks she is sparing you unecessary worry when there is no way you can be there now to help. I understand your feelings as to wanting to do anything you can...and you are by just letting her know you are there for her when she needs you. Keep in touch with her. The waiting has to be the worst, but it'll be comforting for her when she has the time to get all your mail. December isn't all that far away, but to you it may seem like years. Hang in there hun...and email me anytime!

*hugs*

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