So I'm really struggling with this one and need some insight/support/whatever. My fiance and I are getting married the 15th. His bestman just told him today that he can plan to be kidnapped for an evening in San Francisco. The subject of bachelor parties came up the other night amongst friends, and I am really frightened by the idea. Not so much by what my man would do on his own, but by what his buddies will try to get him to do, or get him drunk enough to do. I know if the roles were revearsed the idea of me, having other men be overly sexual towards me even in a stripper setting would make him really upset, but since this is him and not me it's somehow ok. I'm really open to doing the strip club sort of thing together, but his friends like to party, and have cheating in their past, and it just really scares me. Any feedback is extremely appreciated.

Thanks,
Jenny

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