Interesting the double standards. "You must not treat others <this way> <that way> or < this other way >, but should you say they are not allowed to treat you that way, you are a prima donna." Consideration is for all, especially when the person has made it clear that "death jokes" are hurtful, or "sexual innuendos" make me uncomfortable, or etc. It still simply makes no sense to me why it is okay to do this to a friend? Can someone explain why you would have less consideration for friends than others?