He asked for advice, I gave him advice. It's honest advice and just as valid. I don't believe he will feel good about himself if he does this. I don't believe he will be happy a few years down the road when the infatuation is gone, and he finds two wives, two lives, gone. And his first wife, who gave so much to him and to his children will be beyond his reach when he wakes up.

Someone has to care enough about his pride, his self-dignity, and his future, to say something. Life isn't always kind, and love is NEVER an easy simple thing. Love is a difficult life decision that you have to stick to, even when you desperately want to give up.