07-11-2004, 09:04 AM
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Location: British Columbia, Canada
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Originally Posted by Lilith
Sweetlady~ he asked for advice not approval or condemnation. We have no idea about the aspects of his life/marriage. It was a general question...truth or lie? A full scale attack hardly seems appropriate. Maybe you should read around a bit to see that typically while we make our opinions known and try to give advice, most do so with out trying to tear the person down for the choices they make in their life.
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I agree it was pretty condeming, but she has some things right. Like it does take work! I personally don't think another partner should ever be the reason for leaving. Differences, fear of spouce, alcoholism, abuse (mental included) are all reasons for leaving...but another person to facilitate that is just plain wrong.
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