Well the reason i asked is I used to be a fat guy borderline obese and now I'm not but I'm very self conious about it. I always see the girls flocking around the big guys and the thin cut guys. Every girl I've ever realy wanted to be with always say I'm to good of a friend. Maybe its an excuse but everyone says that so I'm hoping its not and that it is that I'm a good person...i just wish I could get the girl every now and then.....you all feel me????