I don't think that you can generalise about individual people!I have always been considered,pretty rough,tough & honest.I don't
usually get to bed until just after 2.00AM.Once,I roll over & put
my arm,around my wife,I know that I busted my ass for something
I guess that would be considered "soft".Who cares?My daughters
& my grandchildren,can also make me "melt"It's a secret,that
only my loved ones & closest friends know.Everyone else,sees the
rough exterior.(Don't tell) Irish

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Irish---Better to be dead & cool,then alive & uncool!
(Harley Davidson & the Marlboro Man)