I don't think she meant it was painful (this woman) but she did imply she wasn't really into it. What you have described above makes me feel quite sad inside that another person would be so introverted in their own need that they cannot see their partner is in pain. I think men like this actually are a disgrace to not only other men, but humanity.

Again though I am not referring to pain, but no real arousal (maybe lubrication used?). Just doing it for your partners benefit.

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