cause some people are just that stupid! (sorry had to lighten the mood a bit)

and Irish...she's your daughter, anyhting that affects her life is your business for as long as she lives, and when it's 'your business'--you can't call it interfering. I have a very close friend who directs all the autistic schooling and state suppervised care for her county. she is very knowledgeable about the desease and has lots of resources at her fingertips. if you'd like me to, i could ask her any question you may have, or even put you in contact if you wish. (although lil did say that your daughter is very knowledgable as well so maybe you don't need it...please feel free to ask though)

good luck