very well put flutelady. a most succinct and perfect defintion.

and now for my two cents: i don't think most guys would lie but i'm sure there are a few who do. i would hope that if i was giving Bigbad a BJ and was messing it up he'd tell me. i haven't actually had that many cocks in my mouth, 4 to be exact and only let 1 of 'em cum in my mouth (no, you pervs not at the same time) so maybe i'm not a good judge. But i'll say this: all that matters is that the guy you are with enjoys it. i wouldn't think that every guy would love the same technique. and to take that one step farther, it only matters to the one you are with if there is a potential (or already existing) commitment (i.e. the sure bet that there would be more BJs ). if i ever gave a crappy BJ to a one-night-stand i don't think either one of us would care enough to make any kind of comments, espesially a how-to-suck-better-cock-tip or a "gee, whats-yer-name, that was the worst BJ of my life".