Just my slant on this, and other threads of yours CL...

It seems to me like you work out your problems in your own mind before anyone has a chance to reply. Or, you chastise us for non-compliance beforehand and come down on yourself in a big way...as a way (it seems) to guilt us into answering you. AND then...when there is a reply...you ALWAYS say that it is all wrong and/or you've heard it all before and it couldn't possibly apply to you!

In other words...YOU ALWAYS SHOOT THE MESSENGER!

I think people here are totally confused by you and just stay away so as not to offend......

Or...maybe that's just me!

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