It seems to be the ole..."I don't want him, but I don't want anyone else having him either"...syndrome to me! From what I know of your situation...SHE is the one who called it quits...right? Sounds to me like she might be remembering all the good things now, instead of what prompted her to initiate this divorce in the first place. I don't know her...but I know I will never forget all the good things that happened in any of my relationships!

I don't know how to direct you about this because anything I say could be right or wrong...and that's too heavy to think about for another person's future. I'm afraid you'll have to feel this out on your own and follow your heart and her lead! If it seems to be going all wrong...do what's necessary to protect yourself! If it gets better than you'd ever imagined...again, do what's necessary for your own good!

Good luck hun! *hugs*

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