well there such a thing as over stimulation, there are so many nerve ending centered around the anus. There are some interesting sites about the male G-spot if your really interested ?
there are nerves at the outside and there are more inside
I suggest you go slow do what feels comfortable or stimulating
save the vibrations till you have a better idea of where it will feel best and most of all communicate to your partner

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