Congratulation wyndhy. I, personally, think you’ve done the right thing in telling him about all of us crazy people. With your relationship being as strong as it sounded to me, I couldn’t see it hurting to tell him, but could only see it NOT being good to not tell him. Unfortunately, my tenure here has seen problems only come when secrets are kept in the most intimate of relationships, and that doesn’t sound like what you have or want.

I’ll extend a welcome to him, whether he wants to become active or not. I’ve come to know a number of couples fairly well and think they are super people. While this IS a site for adults, you may let him note that even in just the category listings of Sex Chat and General Chat, it’s almost two to one for general. We are sexual and comfortable with it, but we have lots of interest and fun.

Good move and good luck to you both.

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