I'm proud of you, Hon. It must've been a tough step to take. But one way or the other, I think you did the right thing for you. Stick to your guns, if he keeps calling without taking real steps I think you're right, you may have to stop answering the phone.

But don't treat it like you're giving him tests or playing games. Don't say "I love you" because you don't want to say it....not becuase you want to drop hints. This isn't a time for hinting...it's a time for telling him things straight out.

Glad you're finding your way through the fog.