I'd say that you must make demands from him for commitment. The iffy part is that most men start out in lust, particularly if they are 'trying' to rebound from a failed marriage. Usually, they haven't ended it simply because of lack of courage. Been there, done that. The part I left unsaid is that often the need for personality compatibility is overshadowed by desire.

Please be careful!

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Lots of people talk and few of them know, soul of a woman was created below

I can't get through to her 'cause it doesn't permit
But I'm gonna give her everything I've got to give.

I hear your sweet voice calling
out my name
As I stare from a six foot cell
And from beyond I heard the words
Deceptively Yours