I will be the odd one out, I am planing on staying a virgin until i get married, but those plans may change with the right guy. it's not an emotional thing, it's not a moral thing, i just would personaly feel guilty about having to tell my husband i'm sorry you weren't the first. it's not that i think having it before hand is bad, everyone has their own view. i've seen what happens and i don't want any of that. i suppose i would find it tempting if i ever had a date, but when i was with my boyfriend from awhile it wasn't a problem, i was like look i'm not doing anything till i'm ready it might be with you it might not, if you don't like it get out, he did and i find it's a lot better without him. and that will end my rambling for the day

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