I agree with Loulabelle's statement about sex complicating a relationship. Love isn't always enough to make a relationship work. It takes information to truly know someone. The act of sex, and the emotions that follow the introduction of sex to your relationship reveal so much about a person's true nature. That's the person you need to get to know before you can be sure that you're compatible.

And on a physical basis, a ten minute trip around the block won't tell you if your ride will last beyond the payments...


but it will let you know how loud the radio is!

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.