it is a very personal decision, true, no matter what you decide. personally, i believe that since sex is such a HUGE part of life and love and marraige that finding out if you ar compatible and can be sexually stimulated by your spouse is very important. an orgasm-less marraige would be a fate worse than death and you can't leave your spouse just cause they can't make you hit that high note! my husband was my first (pre-marraige) so i guess i was just lucky that way, but i doubt we would have married if he didn't or couldn't turn me on, or i him.

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Trees give peace to the souls of men * Nora Waln

The forest would be very quiet if no other birds sang than those who sing the best * Henry van Dyke

some fairly sordid tales, rambles, and anecdotes
Hypothetically Speaking * Something More * Cammy Interrupted * An Experimental Vacation * Masked * so..damn..hot * Thank You * My toy, his idea * no.19 Maple Lane * I Have A Surprise For You * Yesterday * In a Quiet Kitchen * help me decide * untitled prose * more untitled prose