not a virgin but here's my two cents.

I want a man who can satisfy me in bed and have the same desires that I do. I want to be able to connect with him mentally in our lovemaking. no, I wasn't a virgin when I married and I'm glad I wasn't. It was a big part in my decision in getting married. Granted, things changed in my marriage and we grew apart and divorced. But the next one will have to be able to satisfy me also. you can't be happy if you aren't satisfied.

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