thank you all for your kind (understament!) words and thoughts on this thread and for the pm's i've received, too.

<--------------((((((everyone!)))))

i really do want to call the cops on him, but i am afraid my parents will hate me if i do. but more than that, i wish i could wave my magic wand and make it all go away. does anyone have a magic wand i could borrow. i'll give it right back, i swear