One thing that happened to me..: I met this guy, we went out for dinner and a few drinks and we were both totally horny, he started to have his big black hands all over me already in the bar and it drove me crazy, I wanted that guy so much, so I took him home with me... and then:

when I gave him a rubber to put it on he was totally mad and asked if I didn't trust him and if I thought that he had AIDS or some other desease... I sent him home. I mean, come on, I didn't know ANYTHING about that guy, neither did he know me at all.

I am surprised how many men just tell us they'd "be careful". I know that the brain sometimes stops when things get going, but is there a point to risk catching a desease or get pregnant just for half an hour/five minutes/an hour of fun?????