Hmm, the boyfriend had some issues with that (Note: HE had issues with that, I didn't really see much of a problem myself...) and tried the condoms with the cream in them-- my advice is just say no. Those caused a problem... He was apparently sensitive to them and they blocked out all sensation, resulting in a numb penis for a few hours! YIKES! My advice is to slow the sex down a bit- when you feel close, stop for a few minutes and rest- eventually you'll be able to take more stimulation without coming. Good luck

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