Welcome bordendazed
I think you’ll fit in here quite well. It seems you have brought a copy of the Gospel of Pixies with you. Most of us have not lost sight of the fact that we still exist in that world of convention, but have found this place to be a sanctuary for much of the open discussion and feelings of which you speak. I for one have found it self-enlightening to be able to exchange and reflect with others of like mind.

I’ve also found that the conventional stereotyping of intimate gender concepts are not as uniform as preconceived.

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