I underwent the knife one month after the birth of our third child. In my procedure, they snipped each tube, burned the ends, folded them back on each end and tied them. I'd need super-sperm to get anyone pregnant. (imagines little swimmers with a red S)

It wasn't a painful procedure. I could, however, feel them tugging when they tied the knots. That almost made me vomit. It could've been the three valiums though. I took all three at once and drove myself there and back. ha ha

Recovery was swift and uncomfortable. Not ridiculous. I was operated on Friday morning and back to work by Monday, sitting and walking gingerly but fully operational. It was a few weeks before sex and yes Lilith...filling the cup for my test was fun. The only problem that plagues me now because of the procedure is the scar tissue that's built up. It's not much but does cause some discomfort. I get the feeling like my balls are pinched in my underwear even though they aren't. My doctor said I could have the tissue surgically removed if the pain is that bad, but I'm not ready for that yet.

PM me if you have any questions.

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