Oh my God,It never occured to me that you could be receiving threatening mail.The need to protect family members is important.I would take Mr.Lil's friend aside and tell him you have been using his p/o box for personal use and if he wants to know more,explaine as much as you can to him.Then get your own p/o box.Go simply by the name "Lilith". It is so much classier. All I can say is,that if I were this guy,I would be intrigued and a little more that mildly turned on and very discrete about it.

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