03-01-2004, 12:39 PM
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Pixies Den Mother
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Join Date: Mar 2002
Location: No-Hockey Land, dammit!!
Posts: 11,897
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Originally posted by HarleyRider6769
Hummm If you were so unhappy at home why not leave , then find someone to make you happy , understand I am not Judging , I am just curious . I am told that most women do not cheat for the sex , it the emotional needs that they are looking for , and you said you had no intention of leaving your spouse . Oh well I have been told my views are old fashioned anyway , should have been born a couple hundred years ago . No offence just tring to understand .
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Well, this woman is cheating for the sex. And I was married for 30 yrs and had gone without sex for over 13 yrs before I ever even thought about going outside my marriage. My husband is no longer capable of having sex, and I guess due to his own hangups he just can't/won't use his hands or tongue and pretty much does his best to avoid any sexual contact. I'm sure he's afraid that if he does anything at all I'll want more than he's able to give. So.........if I want any kind of affection, and most especially sex........I have to either live the rest of my life as a nun or go elsewhere. |