As a BBM I must be lucky as I havn't had any of the comments many of you seem to have but then again for the area I live I'm quite tall (6 foot) and with my hair style I've been told I look intimidating which I find very surprising because I'm as gentle a person as you'd like to meet. But if I ever did have someone make comments like that to me I guess my reply would be a loud and very direct "take a fuck off pill wanker" no matter where it was.

Everybody ahs the right to be themselves with out others judging them. We may be overweight to some, but who are they to decide? I'm not sure how much I weigh to be honest its in the 20 stone region, I don't care I'm simply me and being big is part of being me. If they don't like it there not worthy of being my friend, It's their loss not mine.

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