I agree that you have to keep your self-respect. Also important that you find someone to trust and care for. I'm not the "zipless fuck" type...but I can't say that I'd never cheat.

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Life is too short not to love and be loved....preferably multiple times in one night.

I think men talk to women so they can sleep with them and women sleep with men so they can talk to them. ~ Jay McInerney