I agree with DM. If the relationship is not taking place now then don't let it bother your relationship with you and your wife. Your wife was obviously comfortable with and trusts you enough to tell you something of that nature and so therefore I think she is worth keeping definately. Its not going to do any good to say anything to your wife about it because after all that was the past and she can't change it. I don't really think what she did was "normal" perhaps, but I also don't think that she is some weirdo freak for it - I am sure there are plenty of people that have the same situational past as your wife. I would say try to ignore it and sing your Christmas carols like you would if you didn't know! Good luck!

Merry Christmas!

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