12-12-2003, 06:13 PM
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Pixies Horse Widower
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Join Date: Jul 2002
Location: Scotland
Posts: 9,473
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Firstly, welcome to Pixies, Cal73!
In answer to your question....... you said
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A couple of weeks ago she confessed to me that she and her female cousin had a VERY intense (SP?) sexual relationship from very early childhood on. This was not a one time thing, it was continious, every weekend for a couple of years.
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Seems to me, your wife felt comfortable enough in in your reaction to TELL you this in the first place..... plus, it was when she was young(er), at a time when most people are still exploring their sexuality. She appears to have decided men are her preference, sexually, and out of ALL the men around, she picked YOU!!
Doesn't that tell you something? cos, it does me! I'd say, enjoy the relationship you have, for what it is, and try to ignore whatever you imagine what may have happened in the past. After all, it's a truism that ALL the things that have happened to your wife in the past, made her the person you fell in love with...... so why question it?
Just my opinion........ Good Luck!! 
DM
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