This is my first post here on pixies!

You guys and girls are pretty open about sexual issues and anything related to it and thats why I'm posting.

I have a problem, actually I don't even know if I have a problem... ohhh hell let me just explain the situation.

I've been together with my wife for about 5 years and we've been married for 2 years. A couple of weeks ago she confessed to me that she and her female cousin had a VERY intense (SP?) sexual relationship from very early childhood on. This was not a one time thing, it was continious, every weekend for a couple of years. Is that normal? Did I miss somthing? Did she do something wrong? How should I react, singing christmas songs next to the both of them?

Now I too did my show and tell thingy way back then, but nothing close to that! Christmas is coming up and the whole family is coming together. ... and this year willl be strange.... I don't know, I'll just see the two of them in a different light this year....

I just wanne know how you guys see that kinda thing.... Looking forward to comments, and please do excuse my spelling, English is not my native language.


Y'all have a really merry merry X-Mas
and a happy new Year

You guys and gals are great
thanks for hosting such a site!