I'm always an advocate of spontaneity personally, at least for your first time. I feel like if you try to plan something like that, if even the littlest thing goes wrong you could feel let down, which is not the kind of first experience you wanna have. I know people who have planned their first time & it went wonderfully but for me sex shouldn't need to be planned ...

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Lao-tzu


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