10-28-2003, 12:52 PM
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Originally posted by WildIrish
I love my wife dearly. Is there someone else out there that I am capable of loving as well. Yes. Absolutely. But that's not what you're asking.
Can I love them at the same time, in the same way? I honestly don't know. I think I could share my wife's affection if the other person was the kind of person I could never be for her. That wasn't easy for me to say, by the way.
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Ok, your last statement has certainly struck a chord. I don't think I could love 2 people in the same way but I can love them in different ways, appreciating the differences that exist. I completely understand how hard it is to say you could share if she needed something that you were not. I don't believe in changing people and so it is certainly quite posible I may need/ want something that he is not. Do I want him to change? Never. So it seems plausible that a person like me to be drawn to and share affection with someone who may have those qualities he does not. Hmmm.... damn now you got me thinking too hard  |