I love my wife dearly. Is there someone else out there that I am capable of loving as well. Yes. Absolutely. But that's not what you're asking.

Can I love them at the same time, in the same way? I honestly don't know. I think I could share my wife's affection if the other person was the kind of person I could never be for her. That wasn't easy for me to say, by the way.

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.