I don't see it as posession really. It's more a case of devotion. As Sharni said when I'm involved with someone I give my all and expect the same. So far I haven't seen the same returned. Some days I wonder why I have faith I ever will.

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As to marriage or celibacy, let a man take which course he will. He will be sure to repent - Socrates

Love is not looking in each other's eyes, but looking together in the same direction - Antoine De Saint-Exupery