racevixen---I know that things have changed over time,but when,
my wife & I,were first married,she was on the pill.I drank,heavily,
& was home,whenever I felt like it.We lived in another state & at
the time,my wife,had no family nearby.She didn't even have an
operators(drivers) license then.After months,I realised that she was getting fed up.To save my marriage(wrong reason),I stepped
on her pkg of pills.She was pregnant,the next month!I had 3 hobbies then,1:Building fast things & racing.2:Sex!3:Drinking!Not
necessarily in that order!Hope this helps.By the way,Welcome!
Irish

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