Cybersex is great fun as long as people are not rude etc. ISPQ and ICUII are good programs but you have to pay for them. I find YAHOO Messenger is a good alternative, you can now use your webcam on it. I personally like showing my body to the ladies and talk about what they like etc. It is just incredibly nice to share sexual thoughts and experiences across the Net, especially when you are all the way in Australia. I agree with the girls when they say no phone numbers. Only chatting, webcam fun, but not further. Everyone has the right to safety and privacy, so I would never ask for a phone number. Kisses to the ladies and ... if you are interested in Cyber, leave me a message. Try the Yahoo thing it works. JACK