As good as it feels physically, my wife is way too self conscious to be comfortable sitting on my face. She is able to relax and enjoy it so much more if she's laying flat on her back, legs spread, with me laying in between them giving her oral while stimulating both of her breasts.

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.