Have a few questions hun...so we can get this right and help...but don't forget, a doctor is the only one who can tell for sure after an exam (my disclaimer)!

Are these tiny tears on the outer or inner lips...or a bit deeper? Have you worn tampons while you have your period? Does he wear a (latex) condom? Do you have a discharge....different than what would be the norm? Do you use douches, contraceptive jelly's or lubricants...or even spray mist? If so....have you just recently started using something or have you been using something from that category for a while....or changed brands? Is there an itch?

I don't know your age....and I don't know how long you've been having sex. If you are comfortable....these things would be helpful to know.

P.S. The body is ever changing...and especially just before your menses cycle begins. A hormone change along with any irritation (such as different panties than your norm...or no panties at all or anything I mentioned above) could exacerbate a minor problem.

Fussy's point is very valid too....so let's see where we can go from here!

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