Absolutelly no. Part of saying you give your heart to someone is a promise and all promises must be honored.

Loren you ask a very important question. In the case that your partner can't (for medical reasons), then I can but say that you and your partner would have to make some decisions.

But if your partner wont, well that is different. If you have already spoken of your needs with them and yet still will not, then it is either time to find a new partner, or you may give your partner fair warning that if something comes along.....

Remember a relationship is based on sharing and to deny sex is not fullfilling an obligation of a realtionship.