I also think many men fear trying new things, or things they have only heard about, with their S/O for fear they will be seen as incompetent or perverted. But I often think women are waiting for the man to take the lead. There is no "failing" in bed. Being intimate happens regardless of the mechanics, if the intent and feelings are there and that makes every experience a success.

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