Pardon my bluntness but I think this might relate to another thread. Remember nice guys? Yep, those of us who will cook, clean and pitch in and do our parts are usually in the same group who are taken for granted and left for those bad boys who spend more time buffing up than worrying with domestic affairs. Now don't get me wrong, I'm not tossing rocks. I'm just offering my observation. Hopefully there are some women who will appreciate a guy who'll do his part. LOL Of course I still have to conquer the first response to my looks. A 45 yr old man with shoulder length hair doesn't make a first impression that coincides with a domesticated beast.

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As to marriage or celibacy, let a man take which course he will. He will be sure to repent - Socrates

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