My wife rarely climbs on top of me, though it's my favorite position. Her only problem with it is that when she's up there, I can't keep my hands to myself! I always lavish her breasts with sloppy kisses and reach one hand down to give a little not so gently attention to her clitoris. All of these efforts end up in her climaxing WAY to quickly. Nice way to beat the clock but not good for a long, slow lovemaking marathon.

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.