Welcum to Pixies racevixen.....and every single thing that Lilith said too!

I don't know your age......and I truly don't want to scare you from trying all/new positions......but this has been discussed before so here goes again! The older a woman gets, the less she should be on top leaning over her S/O! Unless you have a face lift.....all facial skins falls forward and isn't all that pretty! Now....don't get scared.......it only happens with age.....and if you don't believe me (and you are older than say, 30ish...sorry ladies, but I am 45).....go get a big mirror and put it on the floor and lean over it as if you were on top of your S/O and about to kiss him/her. The only cures for this is to (1) get a face lift (2) get on top, but DON'T lean over! LOL! It sounds very vain.....but then we all have some vainity searing through us...don't we?

Now.....other than that.....here's a good top position too! Have him lay prone on a bed or floor......stand above him, facing him, and then squat (like you would to pee in the woods, perhaps). Put your hands on his chest and have him hold your ass. Guide him into you or let him do it. He can push and pull you to his (and your) content! I find, at times, when I'm on top and he just lies there....my legs get tired too soon. If he "helps"....I can go on till we both gush! Just do what feels good.

And communication is a good thing.....so ask him why he didn't want you up top.....without sounding accusing! Maybe he just wanted to do the "everything" thing that particular time! You'll never know unless you ask.

Sometimes, communicating away from the moment can be better than in the moment. Pick a time when the mood is right (but not necessarily while you are going at it) and just bring up the subject of sexual communication. There's nothing better for a relationship than showing the interest in making things good for both of you. If he knows you're interested in ways to make for a better encounter.....he might open up to sharing things that he'd like to do for you as well!

Would you mind giving us your ages and length of time in this relationship? It helps when advice is needed!

And BTW.........This wasn't a "dumb post"! On the list of dumb posts.....on a scale of 1-10 (10 being the dumbest and most irritating) this was a 0. It can be very insightful and helpful.....as you can see by dicksbro's reply!

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