No, not ok... tho it doesn't mean you've done irrepairarable damage when it bleeds... and it doen't need to be stretched, it stretches already to let bigger things out than what your bf is likely putting in! The key is lube, lotsa lube, a little foreplay helps, start with a finger and rub around the outside first, did I mention lube? You and your hole need to be relaxed to get any enjoyment out of it... I also reccommend a warm water enema beforehand, helps the relax part & makes it less messy! And by the way, did I say lube? Lotion not so good, get some KY jelly, or if you can get to a sex shop try some of the speciality lubes they have..

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