I feel it is cheating, unless both are there and doing at the same time, or if the couple agree that it is OK to do it and each other knows about it at the time.
Still I feel that it can and probably does ruin relationships, due to the fact that the ones involved start to form a bond that leads to other things and they start talking to the cyber person about things they should be talking with there spouses about to keep the relationship good and strong.
I could say more on this subject but I don't want to go on about it any longer, it is something that has, ruined relationships in the past and will still, if people continue to do it.

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