I didn't know most men use lotion... Red Hot, have you done the research? For years I jacked off "dry" (explaining the giant bottle of lotion to momma would have been tough.) Then I tried the hand lotion (Vaseline(r) heheheh), and a whole new world opened up to me! I could close my eyes & feel like the warm, wet lips of a woman were wrapped around my pole, inspiring a quick mind blowing load of cum! 'Course it's a little more mess to clean up afterward, but it does leave the skin silky smooth tho.