I think it can be a big turn on to. One of the reasons why I like men is becuase they are big and strong. The strength will inevitably show itself in the bedroom, to the deliegt of both of us. Sometimes being held down just fits the mood, pace and energy of that session.

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"Yes I did go to him,
but completely against my will,
and yes he did things to me,
things of which I dream of still,"

-Cowboy Junkies "Black-eyed Man"